The Vow Whisperer is an officiant, wedding vow, toast, and speech coach service owned by Tanya Pushkine. The Vow Whisperer helps couples craft the perfect vows in their own words and coaches each person to deliver their vows flawlessly for the most important performance of a lifetime. As an officiant, Tanya creates unique and customized ceremonies for every couple.

The Vow Whisperer

LSTV + Kleinfeld: A  Bridal Celebration

I have loved helping friends and family with their vows for years. My own wedding prompted me to become a professional wedding "vow whisperer." My husband and I performed our self-crafted ceremony and written vows and the feedback was so incredible that I decided to help other couples create their dream wedding ceremonies.\nI am here to help you express the feelings you have for your future spouse in words that convey the deepest part of your heart. The vows will express an authentic and sincere compilation of the relationship that  brought you to the altar. The process is collaborative and relaxed whereby we work on the words, the readings, poems, and ceremony based on memories, anecdotes, funny moments, the meaning of marriage, your promises, and much, much more.\nTogether, we will put your thoughts on paper and transform them into a authentic, heartfelt, memorable vows. Once every syllable is perfect, we master work on your most flawless delivery. At this point, I will coach you on delivery of your vows so that you will present confidently and with joy. You will receive constructive feedback on everything from projection, posture, body language, content, and expression. The dream you envisioned of your wedding will come to life with heart, soul, and feelings that reflect the journey you have traveled on together!\nI am there to guide you through your fears and help calm your nerves. I also work with your wedding party on their speeches  and toasts. And of course, I can marry you!

Tanya Pushkine

Officiant

Ceremony Coach

I am a vow-writing coach who works with couples or individuals interested in writing personalized vows (or love letters) for their wedding day. For some, you may want tips on where to start, what to avoid or how to craft an outline. Others will want extra eyes on their first draft or someone to edit/give feedback (before they stand in front of the most important people in their lives and publicly profess their commitment to each other forever). Well, whoever you are, I want to meet you! But first, here's what you need to know: I love love, am a huge fan of words (full-time French and English Teacher here, hi, bonjour!) and adore the nostalgia embedded in videos, pictures and pages that reflect when our love stories were in their youth. I would be honoured to contribute my expertise and passion to your vow-writing process.

Amour Words

Speech Writer

Kat Sillars

Herzzeilen.Freie.Traurednerin

Bridget Garrett Ceremonies

Fedor Kuznetsov

Adam Monroe

Beliavskiy Eevgeniy

Haiku Guys & Gals

Your wedding ceremony shouldn't be something that you suffer through on the way to an awesome party. Instead, your ceremony should be the start of the celebration! Forget tired, boring, and overly traditional wedding ceremonies. Let your ceremony be a reflection of your love and your personalities. Every ceremony we conduct is completely bespoke. We take the time to learn about our couples (not through a questionnaire), but through time spent together, which is why we receive reviews that say, "We had such an amazing experience!" and "She created the ceremony based on our love story so it was not the cookie-cutter type but very personalized." and "Her custom ceremony was amazing, and the perfect mix of traditional, silly, and romantic for my husband and me!" In addition to writing bespoke wedding ceremonies for all of our couples, we have native speakers of English, Portuguese, French, German, Flemish/Dutch, and Russian. So even if you are marrying far from home, that doesn't mean you can't feel at home in your wedding ceremony!

Your Wedding Celebrant

Cubs The Poet

Celebrant Yorkshire

Alan Watts

Mark Dogett

Marry-On

Folly Fresh

Sarita is here to support & guide you right up to your big day & after. 

She would look after the legalities & your ceremony, making sure your wedding day & the build up to it is fun, relaxing & memorable.

The style of your wedding can be anything from a legals only, or a beautiful simple elopement, right through to an all the frills ceremony done traditionally or non-traditionally - whatever you want.

Sarita would create for you, a unique personalised ceremony where you (& your guests) will be left with beautiful memories, that will stay with you for years to come.

Sarita is based in the Central Coast & happy to travel for weddings.

A proud supporter of Marriage Equality & LGBTQI+ friendly.

Sarita the Celebrant

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